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A Word Of Encouragement For "All The Single Ladies".

A Word Of Encouragement For "All The Single Ladies".

Will I ever find the one? Are there still any good guys left? When will I ever get married? 

    Ladies, If you've ever asked these questions, I want you to know the answer is yes! However, it's imperative that you enjoy being single. There is a reason for every season of life and being single isn't a curse, it's a huge blessing! 

    Don't sit around waiting for your future husband, get up and make your future happen. On the inside of you there's a woman with a vision, a risk taker, and a conqueror. Dare to ask yourself, "Am I making the absolute most of this season? Do I recognize I am complete even without a man? Do I fully love myself just the way I am?" 

    Before Adam met Eve, God put him to work. Might I suggest that before you meet your "Adam" God wants to put you to work? Years before my husband and I began dating I dreamt about writing books, preaching, and starting businesses, but I didn't just dream... Step by step I got to work. As I began following the call God placed in my heart, He brought me the most amazing man who happened to have the same call on His life. 

    Genesis 2:18 says, "It is not good that man should be alone, I will make him a helper comparable to him."

    If God desires to give us a helper who is comparable to us, then wouldn't you want to be the best version of you that you could possibly be? I bet you want someone comparable to the best version of you, not the "I could do better because I am not really trying" version of you.

    Ladies, there's nothing more attractive than a confident woman who knows what she's called to do in life. You'll discover your calling by seeking God daily, He wants to reveal all that He has for you. As you operate in your calling, your future husband will take notice of you. Just look at Ruth and Boaz. 

    Your husband is somewhere tangled up in the path of your calling unknowingly waiting for you to arrive. So be the go getter that God has called you to be and make some moves in 2018!

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Too Fat, Too Skinny, Never Good Enough….

Too Fat, Too Skinny, Never Good Enough….

    The title to this blog was the theme song of my life. I had set such unrealistic standards on myself based upon what I thought would be pleasing to eyes of another. 

    At 21 years old, I used to get Botox and temporary lip injections. AT TWENTY-ONE! I look back at my insanity and laugh. I didn’t even have wrinkles back then. 

    I believe a form of freedom comes from self-love and confidence. Confidence is when you can admire another man or woman’s physique and not feel any less valuable for not looking as thin, muscular or as curvy as they do.

    I want to encourage you today to practice self-love!  This means that regardless of your imperfections, you can still love yourself. You are worth more than your bra size, more than your “gains”, and more than your pant size.

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