Pain will break you and it will recreate you. But during the recreation process who are you seeking? Not all "recreation" is good. I've seen people go from heartbreak directly into a rebound relationship which leaves them even worse off than before. The reason for this is because they allowed their rebound to recreate them. If you want your pain to be purposeful, then what I have learned, is that you must give yourself time off from dating and give your pain to the one who loves, heals, and restores. God. He will turn your pain into purpose and your wounds into wisdom. And that my friend is something no man or woman could ever do for you.
"The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." - Psalm 34:18 💔
"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." - James 4:8